I thought this final chapter would be a little difficult to write through eyes blurred by the memories of 14 years on ice, so I decided before we embarked on our weekend trip to the 41st Annual Leo Boivin Major Midget AA/AAA Showcase tournament I would try to construct something of a photo essay of our journey to the end of the Boy’s minor hockey life. Pictures, as they say, tell a thousand words and in some cases even these photos fall short of summing up an incredible three-day hockey experience. This was, without a doubt, one of the best tourneys we’ve ever attended…and how fitting it should be the last. So follow along if you will and forgive any typ0s, which will have nothing to do the occasional nostalgic tear dropped on my keyboard I assure you.
Game two pitted our squad against another AAA foe, but one we all felt would be an easier mark, particularly if our side brought their Double A game. And indeed we watched two very closely matched teams battle to a 1-1 tie through two periods. Unfortunately, a half-hearted shot from just above the slot about halfway through the final frame somehow found its way behind our goalie, who had played a stellar contest to that point. An empty netter would spell a second loss for the good guys and a rematch with a decidedly unpopular rival at 7:30am (an equally unpopular time) the next morning.
However, night two of the tournament featured a skills competition, which included fastest skater and hardest shot categories along with a one-on-one breakaway challenge and a four-on-four mini all-star match. Somehow (methinks birthday related) the Boy was selected by our coaching staff to compete in the hardest shot category, which immediately had me envisioning his infamous “Woooof” a few years earlier; only this time in front of a few hundred more onlookers in a packed Leo Boivin Community Centre. I tried not to remind him of the somewhat embarrassing moment (he says with the knowing smirk of a caring father). Regardless he was honoured to be chosen and Momma and I were thrilled to see him and three of his teammates competing against players from all of the other teams.
Sunday morning and our 6am wake-up call arrived way too early. All bets were off on what type of game we might expect from our Boys or their all too familiar opponents, whom they’d ousted from the Provincial playdowns only a few weeks ago in a thrilling five-game series. To sweeten the pot in this grudge match, the opponents are still locked in a regional playoff battle with the other local league team the Boys removed from the Provincial championship equation in the following, equally exciting five-game series. It’s a wonder we have parents still standing. What we did all know is this could be the final game for our lads should they not be able to secure a win. As the game started, it seemed the knew this too as they were definitely the aggressors early on with a strong forecheck and several shots launched at the opposing keeper. A few minutes into the initial period, they would strike first giving us all a shot of hope. But the momentum would not be sustained as a few penalties were taken enabling the bad guys to tie the score and take the lead late in the second. And then, with the clock winding down in the middle frame, our goalie took exception to the taunting of an opposing player camped out in his crease as a whistle sounded to stop play. Within moments each players arms were flailing as others on the ice, including da Boy, watched from the periphery. I should preface this with mentioning da Boy’s team had one “fight” all year. Suddenly, a player close to da Boy decided to secure him in a headlock to which he says he responded, “Do ya wanna go?” Now his assailant apparently replied “No”, but da Boy had already decided a “fight” had indeed started and he was gonna finish it. He managed to remove his opponents “bucky” as they affectionately refer to their helmets and tossed a few right hands in the right general direction of his target. Meanwhile, one of his linemates grabbed his own dance partner and a partial line brawl ensued. The fracas was relatively short-lived as the linesman moved in. And with that, da Boy’s minor hockey career was brought to an abrupt end one period early; the upside being yours truly and da Boy would watch the rest of the game together side-by-side in the stands.
The Colts would not be able to mount a comeback in the third period. In fact, they gave up an empty netter for a second straight 3-1 defeat, thereby ending the minor hockey careers of all but one player. And while the three losses naturally stung as they should, the entire experience of the weekend felt far from hollow. In an impressive, unprompted show of class and character the Boys led by their Captain skated out in front of their parents to raise their sticks in a salute for not only this weekend, but a nearly quarter lifetime’s worth of getting up early, stopping at Timmies, driving to frozen rinks and sharing their victories, as well as their defeats.
I count myself lucky for having the above photo to go along with all the others trapped securely in my head and I believe da Man sitting next to me will most likely say the same. Of course, I wanna hold onto da Little Boy sleeping in the back seat on the way home as long as I can.
Now could you kindly pass the tissue cuz I gotta wipe off this blasted keyboard?
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The boys played a fantastic tournament. They showed skill, heart, and class in all three games and put on a good show. I hope they all enjoyed it. I also hope the parents and siblings had a good time. There has been cases where parents have returned to the tournament in following years to get away and have some fun in “The Row” all weekend. Feel free to do so yourself.
Thanks for the great blog. I love it.
Jason Saunders
(The Row)
Thanks Jason. I’ll pass along your comments to the team and will let you know they are very much appreciated. I may just take you up on the offer to hang out in “The Row” sometime.
Well stated JR and a proud testament to the Leo Boivin Showcase experience. We attended 2 years ago when our boy, as a Minor Midget, was asked to join the Major Midgets for this event. We would love to have attended again in this, his final season of minor hockey but our team had other concerns in mind. In fact we were busy finishing off those pesky Knights from Ajax this past weekend, on our way to the OMHA championship title (yes, the same ones that ended your boy’s playdown run). Nice story JR, one which countless hockey parents across the land can relate to.
Thanks for sharing,
Brampton 45 Parent
Thank JP. Would have liked to have had a chance to see our Boys go up against yours at some point this season just to get a full and proper measure against the best, but as you note, those pesky Ajax Knights got in our way. Congrats to your lads on a very successful season and well-deserved OMHA Championship. And thanks again for reading.
What a great story & reflection of your boy’s final minor tourney & career. I’m sure I’ll be in your shoes faster than I’d like. These years must be fun because they’re flying by fast!
Thank you Kevin. Be sure to savour all of your moments in the rink as they do go by a whole lot faster than you’d like them to. Cheers.
Amazing story- I’m in tears:) we are just starting the journey – funny enough my son is 6 and was in the skills competition for hardest shot – he was blue #91:) (tells me he shot 80mph hmmmmm) hahahha so when I saw this it made me smile and cry cause I know this will be me in 12-13 years 🙂
What an amazing way to remember such a moment – and we are glad our town could be a part of your memories 🙂
Thanks Christine. Watching your son and the other little ones was a fantastic part of the whole experience. Tell him I remember he sure did have the hardest shot and gave da Boy a run for his money. Do hold all those moments tight and close to your heart as we’ve tried to over the past 13 years. Was awesome to finish da Boy’s minor hockey life in such a classic setting.
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7 years later this still makes me teary eyed!
Da Boys Mama
The young lad wearing the Timbits #9 is my youngest son who will play in the Leo in less than four hours. There is a chance that he face off against his older brother later in the tournament. Home bragging rights will be on the line.
Thank you for such a wonder post. The Leo is a special weekend and I am glad that you and your son’s final hockey weekend was a memorable one.
Very late to seeing your comment, but I hope your son made as many Leo memories as we did!